Monday, 5 September 2016

the wounded child

"The wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by paternal sadism, by a patriarchal world that did not want him to claim his true feelings. The wounded child inside many females is a girl who was taught from early childhood on that she must become something other than herself, deny her true feelings, in order to attract and please others. When men and women punish each other for truth telling we reinforce the notion that lies are better. To be loving we wiliingiy hear each other's truth and, most important, we affirm the value of truth telling. Lies may make people feel better, but they do not help them to know love."

- Bell Hooks

1 comment:

  1. Hi Izzy! How are you? You haven't posted anything in so long. Okay it's been a week je but feels like I haven't read anything from you for ages!! Haha. Hope you're well!!